The time to love someone is not when they seem lovable, when they are pleasant or have done everything right or the way you think they should have.
The time to love someone is when they’re at their lowest and don’t see a way out, or when they have taken a road that may not be the best but is was their choice nonetheless.
Always take into consideration what they have gone through, are going through, to get to this place they may currently be in. Consider the hills, the valleys, the pain, the rejection, the hopelessness and even the last bit of strength they may have left before you choose to judge them or “ration” out the love that you feel is appropriate to give to them.
Be careful that you have measured them right, because if you do you will remember that you didn’t get through what you got through alone – you might thought you did – but someone had measured your situation and decisions and chose to love you anyways.
Before you choose to judge someone, choose to encourage them, pray for them and just love them.